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Finding Common Ground: The Power of Mediation in Divorce

Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution that has been utilized by the Florida court system for more than four decades. It allows disputing parties to resolve their differences without court intervention. Mediation facilitates communication between conflicting parties and is a valuable tool in cases of divorce. Family law judges generally order mediation as part of the divorce process.

The Role of a Mediator

A mediator is a neutral third party who clarifies areas of agreement and disagreement and guides parties in dispute toward resolving their differences. A mediator does not provide counseling, give legal advice, or decide the outcome of the conflict. They provide a supportive environment, helping each party understand the other’s perspectives, concerns, and goals. A mediator can be instrumental in diffusing conflict and maintaining a couple’s focus on reaching a mutually accepted divorce settlement agreement. 

The Advantages of Mediation are:

  • Self-Determination: When divorcing parties find common ground on issues and concerns, those agreements are typically more sustainable and respected.
  • Confidentiality: Mediation is a private process, unlike a court proceeding, which becomes a matter of public record.
  • Enforceability: Agreements made in mediation are legally binding and enforceable in a court of law.
  • Saves Time and Costly Court Fees: Mediation is generally faster, as the parties are not waiting for a scheduled court hearing. It is more budget-friendly than going to court.
  • Reduces Stress: Mediation is a collaborative approach and is less formal than a trial or arbitration. It encourages parties to find areas of mutual agreement rather than escalate conflict.
  • Flexibility: Mediation solutions are tailored to the interests of both parties, whereas court decisions often disregard the preferences of those in dispute. 

How Should You Prepare for Mediation?

Alimony, child custody and visitation arrangements, division of property and assets, and debt allocation are common topics discussed and negotiated in mediation during a divorce. Knowing that these will be the key topics, you should come prepared.

Items You Should be Prepared to Discuss at Mediation include:

  • Financial records
  • Property ownership 
  • Insurance policies
  • Business agreements
  • Valuations of personal assets
  • Monthly Expenses
  • Child-related expenses 
  • Proposed parenting plans
  • Marital debts 
  • Tax return documents
  • Pre- or post-nuptial agreements
  • Pending divorce documents

Most importantly, you should bring an open mind and a willingness to listen and compromise.

What Happens When Mediation is Unsuccessful?

Sometimes, mediation does not resolve disputes, especially when the parties have unrealistic expectations, allow their emotions to control the conversation, or refuse to make compromises. Failing to settle differences in mediation can lead to a lengthy and costly divorce, where a judge decides your future. 

Doran Sims Wolfe & Yoon: Comprehensive Legal Services for Divorce in Daytona Beach, Florida

Whether you choose to attend mediation or it is court-ordered, you are best represented by an experienced divorce lawyer. Even if you and your spouse begin the divorce process desiring to part amicably, divorce can quickly become hostile over the terms and conditions of alimony, asset and debt distribution, property settlements, and parenting plans. The attorneys at Doran Sims Wolfe & Yoon are your legal coaches who will support you throughout mediation or divorce litigation, protecting your rights and interests. Additionally, without solid legal counsel, you may not understand the future ramifications of a divorce settlement agreement. 

Dora Sims Wolfe & Yoon have decades of experience in family law and divorce matters in the Daytona Beach, Florida, community. Our attorneys are dedicated to providing you with high-quality legal representation with a personal touch. Contact us at (386) 253-1111 to schedule a Free Consultation with an attorney who will ensure the most positive outcome for your future.